Letter to Mark Zuckerberg, Facebook CEO
Dear Mr. Zuckerberg,When I first joined Facebook last year, I immediately searched for groups of parents of special needs children. Because in February of 2007, my son August was born with a very rare genetic anomaly. He is missing the tip of chromosome seven, which has contributed to a number of challenges including a tethered spinal cord, hearing impairment, misaligned bowel, developmental and gross motor skill delay, and feeding difficulties. He was determined as “failure to thrive” and had a feeding tube put in at three weeks old so he could get big enough for us to take him home from the hospital 41 days after he was born. I ended up finding a group of parents of kids with feeding tubes. I read the profiles and looked at photos and searched for someone with the same genetic deletion as my son. I did find a couple of families and have connected with them.Through “My Child Has a Feeding Tube” group, I found a site called Tube Fed Kids Deserve to Eat, which was full of stories and videos of kids eating, having picnics and being weaned from their feeding tubes. I clicked on a link which sent me to Graz, Austria. At the University Children’s Hospital, kids are learning how to eat! There is a team of 25 professionals who have been weaning kids from their tubes for 25 years and they have a 95 percent success rate! I devoured every bit of information on the site. I couldn’t believe what I was reading. This place really exists and has an amazing approach that lines up with my family’s beliefs. Their philosophy is simple: Understand the problem from the child’s perspective, and stimulate his sensory and motor abilities. The child’s need to develop his own will power directs his individual treatment. It’s a child-led, compassionate feeding program that is not replicated in this country. I have looked for comparable programs here, where my insurance would actually cover a portion of the costs, but nothing even comes close to what they are doing in Austria.
For something this important, we want to send August to the best place in the world where he has the greatest chance of success (95 percent success rate). If we had a source of employment we would consider taking out a loan, but my husband lost his job last April. We are currently both working part-time and sharing the home-front duties. Without income, borrowing money is nearly impossible. So that is why we have turned to our community and our Facebook friends to help us spread the word and raise the funds. I had the idea to set up a page and try to get 1000 people to become a fan and donate 25 dollars each. Right now August to Austria has 120 fans who have contributed $3670. I found the Graz feeding program on Facebook so I decided to try our luck again with Facebook. We are trying to raise money to get August to Austria this summer. Would you, Mr. Zuckerberg, be willing to match what we raise? Having my son August off his feeding tube would have such a positive impact on my family’s life. The tube requires constant thought and attention. Besides all the blending of food and time it takes to get his nutrition in, the potential for the tube to get pulled out is always present. We have to carefully watch August as he gets down from the couch and make sure his tube doesn’t catch on anything. Without the tube, we would be able to leave the house with a few snacks in the diaper bag–oh, what freedom! Eating a meal with August could be a pleasant, positive experience instead of frustrating. Many meals end with exasperated parents and a three-year old in the high chair with food coming out of his mouth because he doesn’t know how to swallow.
After we get back from Austria, I want to help other families get there and help their children learn to eat. I hope to raise money to get them there, while developing a program here in the United States. I wanted you to know how your service has helped us so far and will have a huge impact on the rest of our lives. We imagine a life without that tube, with less worry, less stress, and a happier healthier son who eats orally. Thank you for creating Facebook. If you have any questions, or want to help our cause please contact me at the address below. Anything you can do to get August to Austria would be greatly appreciated. Thank you so much for your time and consideration. Our first press release is included.
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